Ever wondered what a ritual is or how to create one? Why would you even want to do a ritual? In this article, I explain what rituals are to me, how I incorporate BDSM into them, and how to create your own death and rebirth ritual.
Never been to a fetish club before and planning on going solo? Read this article for my top tips for newbies.
I am passionate about making BDSM accessible, and normalising kinks. That is why I do not call my BDSM space a dungeon. I prefer to think of it as a playground for adults.
Why would you want to learn how to top your partner? You might want to try something new. You might want to experience another aspect of yourself. You might want to please your partner.
In this article I will talk about how I use Pet Play as an activity that helps to elicit the best that a person wants to come from themselves.
Do you want to be more playful? I think that being playful is important for a sense of wellbeing. When you are playful, you feel joyful sensations that last long after the playing has ceased.
I believe that the willing exposure to certain emotional states in a loving environment, can help to rewire the brain. Being temporarily uncomfortable, can contribute you to feeling more comfortable! BDSM can help you to develop a much bigger comfort zone to play in.
Never forget that even with your thinking brain, language and clever fingers, you are still an animal. Animals do not like to be kept in cages for long! When was the last time you let your animal out?