BDSM training in London

Looking for BDSM training in London? I provide tailored training courses for people who want to discover the world of kinky play and learn how to share this with their partners.

What is kink? I like to define it as ‘adult play’. The public perception of kink is that it describes sexual activities that are outside of the norm but the definition of what is and what isn’t kinky varies widely, since ‘normal’ sexual boundaries vary by time and place too.

I prefer to think of kink as something that allows for intense intimate experiences to be created. BDSM provides the structures to experiment with kink and I love to show people how to apply these structures with emotional intelligence.

Why get BDSM training?

Satisfy your curiosity and unleash the inner you!

The skills I will teach you will help you to:

  • understand your emotional and sexual offerings
  • be more confident in and out of the bedroom
  • develop excellent communication skills
  • read body language
  • negotiate consent and boundaries
  • create exciting intimate scenarios
  • dissolve any shame you feel around your desires

A Dutch study indicated that people who engaged in BDSM appear to have a good mental health profile, and compared to control participants were:

  • less neurotic
  • more extraverted
  • more open to new experiences
  • more conscientious
  • less sensitive to rejection
  • had a higher sense of wellbeing

How does it all work?

If you want to learn and apply BDSM skills, I can provide creative direction and support within a hands-on learning space. A model can be brought in as a practice partner for you and you will feel safe in the knowledge that I’m there to provide you with real-time guidance.

We will agree a set of sessions which I design specifically around your needs. For example, this could be 3 sessions at an equipped BDSM space, given over a period of 3 months, in combination with debrief live-video sessions and a monthly email exchange.

The kinds of activities I will demonstrate and coach you in include:

  • wheel of consent
  • empathic communication
  • body worship
  • erotic ritual
  • sensual domination
  • impact play
  • pet play
  • role play
  • primal play
  • sensory play

Let’s connect

Every connection starts by filling out a simple form (click here for form), an opportunity for me to learn about your expectations, desires and needs. If I believe I can help you, I will contact you by email right away and we will arrange an initial consultation call for a fee of £110. I always have a consultation call with a new client before deciding if I will offer to train you.

Erotic photography

A fun possibility is to add your own erotic photography shoot (click for ART page) to a BDSM training course, to create a beautiful and empowering memento of the work you have undertaken.

Get in touch and let’s look all these possibilities in more detail.

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