I think that anal pleasure for straight men is still seen as a bit taboo. Something being taboo means that it is prohibited or restricted by social custom.

Pegging is an activity that involves a man having his anus penetrated by a strap-on dildo, so it falls square within this taboo category.

So why is pegging taboo? There are two main reasons that I have noticed:

  1. Straight men might worry that experiencing anal pleasure makes them gay.
  2. Men or women might worry that anal play could be dirty or unhygienic.

The taboo of straight men having their anus penetrated means that some couples will specifically avoid trying that activity and I think that is a real shame, since pegging can be a fun thing to try.

I like to smash taboos. I want to show people that certain activities that are taboo can be harmless and fun.

So let me have a go at addressing the two worries above.

Myth no.1 “if a man likes pegging he’s gay”

First of all, I don’t think there is anything undesirable about being gay. It’s up to everyone to decide on their own sexual identity though, so I’m not here to tell anyone that they should be one thing or another. I’m just here to dispel the myth that enjoying the experience of being pegged makes a man gay.

By its very nature, the activity of pegging is not gay; a woman penetrates a man. Pegging is an activity between a man and a woman.

For a straight man to decide that he won’t be pegged because it would make him gay, means that he is denying himself a part of his own body for the sake of what he thinks it might say about him to enjoy it. I think that is silly.

Myth no.2 “pegging is messy/gross/dirty”

Ok so let’s be real. Poo does come out of the anus, so there is the possibility of pegging being a messy experience.

I say don’t let that stop you. Do some preparation. Get a douche a wash your rectum and sigmoid colon an hour before you want to play and I am pretty sure that there won’t be any mess. When the water runs clear you’ll know that its safe to play.

There is plenty of information available on the internet about how to clear the area before anal play.

I also recommend having some wet wipes ready and to cover the dildo with a condom.

Check out my educational video on sensual pegging

Do you feel reassured? I hope so. The chances are that if you enjoy my work then you’ll already be enjoying pegging or be ready to try it.

For newbies, I recommend that you check out my educational video on sensual pegging (https://getindiebill.com/store/checkout/1B95B933ABC54A05930A968FD8D83B54). The video includes an introduction from me where I talk about the activity and how to prepare. You also get to watch a fully explicit demonstration of pegging by the two models that I worked with to produce the video and hear what they had to say about it afterwards.

Want more support?

I can provide a learning space for you and your partner, or you and a model, where you can try pegging. Here is a link to my booking page https://divinetheratrix.com/contactandbookings/

In peace, love and kink,

DT xx